The Fine Line- a poem about my musings on image and self-esteem

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The Fine Line

There's a fine line between

Being nice
To be popular vs.
Liking people

Posting a selfie
To get likes vs.
Happiness in being you

Telling people your accomplishments
To brag vs.
Excitement in reaching a goal

Being emotional
To get pity vs.
Letting yourself be vulnerable.

Showing your sexuality
To get attention vs.
Feeling attractive

If the two look the same, how can you tell the difference?
The answer is, how do you perceive yourself if you did the same thing

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